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Wednesday, April 9, 2008

♥ What is in my mind now....

Everyone of us has his or her own dreams. Some of us dream big, while some dream in a simple manner. Dreaming is a part of our day to day life. These dreams helps us create our mindset of goals and visions that we will attain as time goes by. Some will end up achieving those dreams while some fail, while others will hope until when...
For me, first I am always dreaming of a time with Quing walking on a seahore or perhaps swimming with her, growing old with her, making our own family and raise up our kids in the right guidance according to God's standard. I get dissapointed sometimes because it is hard for me and Quing to have one great time together at the seashore, since she also has lack of interest going there, but I dont lose hope, I know someday, somehow, we will always go there and have our morning devotion there.....
All I want is a simple life, away from the busy stages of this world, having more time with Quing and my future kids. With this career oriented world, I know that it will be hard to achieve since we have a globally competitive world out there. But then again will I lose hope? Or will I continue to hold on that one day, we will have a great and simple life. The answer lies only in the Hands of our Lord who made us together.
Only when that time comes we will experience life that we always dream of....
Marriage is not just the ceremony, nor a commitment that later will be broken. Marriage is something far more beyond what we can imagine, define or even understand. Only God can help us know and see what lies beyond the bond of marriage. It is not the ring, nor the things that we will wear, nor the people. it is simply... You and Me and God.. No one else....
I know that there are times that you are having a hard time understanding me as an individual. How would you be able to undertand me if you will not spend more time with me than what is outside of us? <-- these are the just one of the questions inside my heart that only God can answer as time pass by.
For now, what is important to me is that I am dreaming a simple life with my Quing...
"Life is a context of simplicity vs. complicated things. One must focus on the areas that needs attention to cultivate the gray areas of our love life...."
--- Rai Abary

♥ The Couple

    Rai Abary
    Quing Perpetua


    He was looking for God’s gift.
    She was waiting for God’s will.
    Both believe that true love waits.
    Both hoped.

    When boy meets girl, friendship started then. They shared thoughts, stories, and even problems they face everyday. The tiny bond of friendship blossoms deeper and deeper as each day passed by. He confided to her, she leaned on him. Both shared the same passion and that is to serve God and to walk intimately with God. He prayed for her. She prayed for him. An ordinary friend turned into more special - prayer partner.

    More talks, more laughs, more cries, more songs, more poems, more thoughts, more prayers, more time have been spent, that love began to grow and bind them.

    May 17, 2007, God, in His own perfect way and time, allowed us to enjoy the gift of love.

    Until now, God never fails to guide us. Like any ordinary relationship, we fight - get jealous, get mad, misunderstand and even hurt each other. As an individual, we need to adjust, take risks and sacrifices. "It is painful". Yet, true love is still worth it all. We know that everyday, we face challenges, and we need to fight, defend and protect the love that we have. It may tear us, cost our life, yet we do not fear because GOD is the center of our faith.
    God is our strong foundation, our beginning and our end.

    When God made Rai, He was thinking of Quing.

♥ Our Love Verse

♥ Our Witnesses

♥ Memoirs

♥ twiddle us

♥ Our Love Songs